Who Wrote Your Dictionary? - Part 3

A few years later, the apostle Paul took a page out of Jesus' dictionary and went into more detail about how love is defined:

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. 1Co 13:1-3

Before he began explaining what love is, he talked about how important it is for us to have it. Love is the difference between being worth listening to and being background noise. Love is the difference between a being a beneficial and prosperous soul and being a nothing. Love makes the difference between our efforts being a benefit or a waste. He goes on to be specific in defining what live is like.

1Co 13:4 Love:

● love is patient - instead of having a short fuse, to be long spirited, long-suffering.
● love is kind - to show oneself useful, that is, act benevolently (like your mama said “why don't you make yourself useful!”)
● love does not envy – not motivated by jealously or wanting what doesn't belong to you
● love does not boast – not to be a braggart
● love is not arrogant – not inflated, proud, puffed up.

1Co 13:5

● love is not rude - not to be (that is, act) unbecoming: - behave self uncomely (unseemly).
● love does not insist on its own way
● love is not irritable – like a sharp jab in the side, that is, to exasperate: - not easily provoked
● love is not resentful – not keeping score, taking an inventory or keeping account of wrongs

1Co 13:6

● love does not rejoice at wrongdoing – not happy with injustice or unrighteousness
● love rejoices with the truth - sympathizes in gladness, congratulates truth


1Co 13:7 In all things - whatsoever, whosoever – everything that goes on in our lives:

● love bears - to roof over, that is, to cover with silence (to keep a lid on it)
● love believes - to have faith, to trust
● love hopes - to expect or confide
● love endures - to stay under (behind), persevere

Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 1Co 13:8-11

Love is a characteristic of maturity, not of childishness.

Once again, the question for us, then, is “Who wrote your (my, our) dictionary?” Like we talked about in Part 1, definitions are descriptions of something.

If someone was asked to describe what your life was about, to sum up your life in a word or two, what would they say? What would they say is the love of your life? Is your life defined in terms of athletics? hunting? fishing? food? music? hobbies? sex? money? your work? Jesus?

Whatever or whoever defines your life is – in a practical sense – your God.

Paul talked sadly about ones he knew who let something other than Jesus define them.

Brothers, join in imitating me, and keep your eyes on those who walk according to the example you have in us. For many, of whom I have often told you and now tell you even with tears, walk as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their end is destruction, their god is their belly, and they glory in their shame, with minds set on earthly things. Phi 3:17-19

They let their own appetites define and control their lives. Don't let this be your life. Let the God who alone has the right to define you – truly be the definer of your whole life.

Who Wrote Your Dictionary? - Part 2

In Part 1, we looked at what "define" means and asked, “Who wrote your dictionary?” Who we get our definitions from makes a big difference in how we look at life and how we live it. Are God's definitions your definitions?

Don't let the world around you squeeze you into its own mold, but let God remake you so that your whole attitude of mind is changed. Rom 12:2 (Phillips)

As creatures and as God's people, we must be sure we get our definitions from God and not from those who think nothing of Him – and specially ones who oppose or resist Him.

The Beatles sang a song that said “Love, love, love – all you need is love...” but in real life, at the height of their fame, they could barely stand to speak to each other.

What if we were to ask someone like... let's say a rich and famous star or starlet or entertainer what love means, what would they say. They might say love is being head-over-heels for someone -- “crazy in love” -- something that takes off like a rocket, then cools off and goes sour. Then -- someone else comes along to be head-over-heels for. This is the world's mold that we need not to be squeezed into.

Question: What does “love” mean in Jesus' dictionary?

For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? Mat 5:46

Love is not “giving to get.” Like Sammy Hagar singing “if you want love you've got to give a little...”

Jesus was asked: "Which commandment is the most important of all?" Jesus answered, "The most important is, 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.' The second is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these." Mar 12:28-31

Love incorporates your whole being. It is not just emotional - a "feeling" you have . Put your heart into, your mind into it... and put your back into it. And God requires it of us (it's not optional) toward our neighbors, not just for Himself.

Jesus had devoted the last three years of his life to teaching twelve men and many other friends everything they could understand about God's purpose and will. The night before his death, at a private dinner and passover celebration he spent a lot of time talking to them about what love means – as He defines it. It was at this last supper that he instructed about love – more than any other single occasion in the gospels.

Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that his hour had come to depart out of this world to the Father, having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end (To the utmost). Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into his hands, and that he had come from God and was going back to God, rose from supper. He laid aside his outer garments, and taking a towel, tied it around his waist. Then he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples' feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around him. Joh 13:1-5

"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." Joh 13:34-35

"If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. Whoever does not love me does not keep my words. And the word that you hear is not mine but the Father's who sent me. Joh 14:23-24

As they got up from their meal and began walking to the Garden of Gethsemane, He continued to talk to them...

"As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. "This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. These things I command you, so that you will love one another." Joh 15:9-17

As they went, Jesus prayed. His prayer was for them and for us who have believed through them. Here is an excerpt of his prayer:

"And for their sake I consecrate myself, that they also may be sanctified in truth. "I do not ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me. Father, I desire that they also, whom you have given me, may be with me where I am, to see my glory that you have given me because you loved me before the foundation of the world. O righteous Father, even though the world does not know you, I know you, and these know that you have sent me. I made known to them your name, and I will continue to make it known, that the love with which you have loved me may be in them, and I in them." Joh 17:19-26

Jesus didn't say anything “mushy” when He talked about love. When He talked about love, He talked about commitment and service. He talked about something that originated in eternity and is long-lasting, not here today and gone tomorrow. He talked about learning what is right. He talked about doing right for Him and for the benefit of others.

He said love means laying down your life for others... giving up your own life for the sake of others. That may take many forms. In the heat of battle, a soldier might literally give up his life to save a comrade. In the battles of everyday life, we have to learn to let go of what we want for the good of those who depend on us.

Are Jesus's definitions your definitions?

Who Wrote Your Dictionary? - Part 1

Most of us know what a dictionary is and what it is used for -- correct spelling & pronunciation -- but especially meanings.

I looked up meanings of the word "define" at wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn:

• give the meaning of a word; "Define 'sadness'"
• specify: determine the essential quality of (as in a specification... a blueprint callout)
• determine the nature of; "What defines a good wine?"
• show the form or outline of, differentiate; "The tree was clearly defined by the light"; "The camera could define the smallest object"

The Bible is a dictionary, too, and the Lord God is the original definer. “He said...” and it was. “He spoke...” and it was done.

In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was
without form and void, and darkness was over the face of the deep. and the
Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters. And God said, "Let
there be light," and there was light. And God saw that the light was good.
And God separated the light from the darkness. God called the light Day,
and the darkness he called Night. And there was evening and there was morning,
the first day. Gen 1:1-5

So it was with each of the next five days of creation. God defined and spoke:

Day two he created... The expanse. And it was so. And God called the expanse Heaven. And there was evening and there was morning, the second day. Gen 1:6-8

Day three he created... Oceans and land mass. God called the dry land Earth, and the waters that were gathered together he called Seas. And God saw that it was good. Gen 1:9-10

Vegetation. The earth brought forth vegetation, plants yielding seed according to their own kinds, and trees bearing fruit in which is their seed, each according to its kind. And God saw that it was good. And there was evening and there was morning, the third day. Gen 1:11-13

Day four he created... Sun, moon and stars. And God made the two great lights--the greater light to rule the day and the lesser light to rule the night--and the stars. And God set them in the expanse of the heavens to give light on the earth, to rule over the day and over the night, and to separate the light from the darkness. And God saw that it was good. And there was evening and there was morning, the fourth day. Gen 1:14-19

Day five he created... Sea creatures and birds. And God saw that it was good. It was an explosion of diversity -- not like Henry Ford's Model T -- “You can have any color you like as long as it's black.” And God blessed them, saying, "Be fruitful and multiply and fill the waters in the seas, and let birds multiply on the earth." And there was evening and there was morning, the fifth day. Gen 1:20-23

Day six he created... Livestock and land animals. And God made the beasts of the earth according to their kinds and the livestock according to their kinds, and everything that creeps on the ground according to its kind. And God saw that it was good. Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth." So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. Gen 1:24-27

You see, God has the authority and power to define. In Isaiah 55:11 He says - “so shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and shall succeed in the thing for which I sent it.” God defined man's purpose and work.

He further defined the nature and boundaries of man's relationship with him:

And God blessed them. And God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth." And God said, "Behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is on the face of all the earth, and every tree with seed in its fruit. You shall have them for food. And to every beast of the earth and to every bird of the heavens and to everything that creeps on the earth, everything that has the breath of life, I have given every green plant for food." And it was so. And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day. Gen 1:28-31

The LORD God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it. And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, "You may surely eat of every tree of the garden, but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die." Gen 2:15-17

Then God gave Adam the authority and task of naming and classifying all the creatures he had dominion over:

So out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. Gen 2:19-20

This is wonderful! What more could a man want? But... trouble came to Eden.

Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, "Did God actually say, 'You shall not eat of any tree in the garden'?" And the woman said to the serpent, "We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, 'You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.'" But the serpent said to the woman, "You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil." Gen 3:1-5

Satan sought to “re-define” what God has said. He suggested that God didn't really mean what he said and the He only said it to hold Adam and Eve back from being equal with Him. Satan is still does that today. He has a rival system that does not recognize God's authority or definitions.

God wrote the dictionary for His creation. So, then, “Who wrote your dictionary?” Who we get our definitions from makes a big difference in how we look at life and how we live it. Are God's definitions your definitions?